Showing posts with label popular/common dream themes. Show all posts
Showing posts with label popular/common dream themes. Show all posts

Thursday, 30 March 2017

Popular Posts of the Month

I take an active interest in which 'historical' or past posts have been popular on a daily, weekly or monthly basis. This helps me see what has engaged readers, which online searches bring people to my Blog and gives me ideas to customise content for future posts. 

For this reason, I decided to do a new series of posts which highlights the popular content on my Blog - with the aim of bringing it to new readers who may not wish to search through the entire Blog to find interesting content. 

Here are the most popular posts this month (click on the title and the post will open in a new window):

This is the most popular post of all time. The most common Google search which brings readers to my Blog - and the dream theme most people ask me to interpret - is undoubtedly dreams about knives or stabbing. This is a very common recurrent dream theme for myself. This article provides some possible interpretations (from a cross-cultural perspective) of dreams about knives and stabbing. I also provide advice on how to interpret dreams using dream symbolism. 

This is a very recent dream, as you can see from the date. It was a Vivid/Pre-Lucid Dream which occurred during my most recent Dream Incubation Experiment (which is linked from the post itself).

This was another very recent dream, which was part of the same Dream Incubation Experiment. This dream featured my all-time favourite celebrity male, Ewan McGregor. 

Again, another recent Dream Incubation Experiment dream.

Snakes and serpents is another incredibly common universal dream theme and one which yields a great number of daily Google searches by people seeking interpretations. 

Another recent dream which was Pre-Lucid. This dream featured reference to dreaming and recording dreams on this very Blog, so it was quite meta!

Possible interpretations for dreams about cats.

This is a surprisingly popular/common dream theme experienced by dreamers across the world. 

A very recent dream with some sexual themes.

As with all the Dream Journal posts on this list, this was a recent dream - and again, it occurred during my Dream Incubation Experiment.

Wednesday, 23 March 2016

Pregnancy & Dreaming

Many pregnant women report drastic changes in the nature and the content of their dreams, which sometimes causes alarm, anxiety and confusion. This article addresses the theme of dreaming in pregnancy and attempts to offer some explanations for this phenomenon. If you are pregnant and have any worries about your health and wellbeing, please do not ignore them. My bottom-line advice is to always seek professional medical attention for your own peace of mind. 

Often, pregnant women claim that their dreams are more vivid, intense and bizarre than usual, and strangely, there are some types of dream which seem to commonly occur in pregnancy. Fathers-to-be (or non-male partners in LGBT+ relationships where one partner is pregnant and the other is not) will also be likely to experience changes in their dreams - reflecting their mental and emotional processes as they prepare for a life-changing event, and perhaps some of their anxieties and concerns about the pregnancy and wellbeing of the mother and child. The nature and content of the dreams of the non-pregnant partner may depend on their gender and life experiences, so each dream experience, while some generalities can be drawn, will be unique to the individual.

However, in pregnant women, the changes in dreaming may also be caused by physical reasons as well - the dreaming mind is responding to changes in the body of the dreamer as much as their psychological or emotional state at this very significant stage in life.

Why does pregnancy cause changes in dreaming? One potential reason is that pregnancy causes huge disturbance in the normal sleep cycle, and therefore impacts on dreaming. 

Dreams mainly occur in the REM (rapid eye movement) stage of the sleep cycle. REM sleep is a light form of sleep, where you are close to waking. Here is an illustration of the normal sleep cycle: 


In an average or typical sleep cycle, you will see that you go in and out of REM sleep periodically, with the longest period of REM sleep taking place just before you wake. This is why we tend to remember the dreams which happen just prior to waking up far better than those which take place at earlier stages of REM sleep in the sleep cycle. Dream recall is linked to to the recency of the dream: if you wake up while in REM sleep, you tend to remember the dream you just had better than if you had sleep through the night. 

The more times you wake up, the more times you will enter REM sleep, as each stage of the sleep cycle is repeated. The average person spends 20 - 25% of the sleep cycle in REM sleep and the dream state. This means that waking during the night increases the change of experiencing and recalling more dreams - this has been shown through research into sleep and dreaming. Additionally, pregnant women often require more sleep, and may be taking more naps in addition to sleeping for longer periods at night.

In pregnancy, many things can disrupt sleep and cause you to wake periodically during the night (body temperature; discomfort and cramping; movement of the baby in the womb; frequent need to urinate; general anxiety or stress etc) - all of these things will lead to increased periods spent in REM sleep and increased chance you will wake from a dream and remember it more clearly. Some research suggests that an increase in the hormones oestrogen and progesterone may be responsible for vivid, bizarre and memorable dreams during pregnancy. 

Additionally, it may be that certain vitamins, supplements, medicines, dietary changes etc, may be responsible for causing noticeable differences in the quality or content of the pregnant woman's dreams. If the woman has for example,  quit smoking (and is using nicotine replacement therapies which are known to have a huge impact on dreaming and the potential for nightmares) or recently given up drinking alcohol, or using recreational drugs, these lifestyle changes which accompany a healthy pregnancy, may cause an alteration in dreaming, just as they would in a non-pregnant person. 

'There is a greater amount of actual dreaming and dream recall when a woman is pregnant than at any other time during her life', says Patricia Garfield who has authored a book which covers this topic, Women's Bodies, Women's Dreams (1988). Garfield, who is a co-founder and former president of The International Association for the Study of Dreams (IASD), states that 'the dreams will relate to her condition of pregnancy, the trimester she is in, and what is going on in her body at the time'.

All of the vivid, weird and bizarre dreams women report experiencing while pregnant can be a way for them to come to terms with their new role as a parent. Tore Nielsen, director of the Dream and Nightmare Laboratory at the Hopital du Sacré-Coeur de Montreal, in Canada, states that this is all part of the normal 'mental remodeling process'. In fact, some dream analysts and experts who work with pregnant women have suggested that discussing the themes which occur during pregnancy is a very useful stimulus for raising underlying issues related to the pregnancy, such as changes in the body or anxiety about their relationships or ability to cope with a new baby. 

The psychological state of a pregnant woman is undergoing a process of change and growth, which parallels what is happening physically to her body: 'Pregnancy dreams are nature’s way of assisting the woman through the process of transformation from woman to mother' claims Raina M Paris, author of The Mother-to-Be’s Dream Book (2000). Dr Nadia Bruschweiler-Stern a physician at the University of Geneva, Switzerland, is in agreement, claiming that the 'mental pregnancy' a mother experiences is just as profound as the physical one.

Obstetrician, Dr Gerard DiLeo explains that dreams act as a form of  'clearing-house' to help expectant mothers come to terms with both the physical and emotional transformation they are experiencing. He states: '[f]or first-time mothers especially, the bizarre dreams are a very real acknowledgement of the emotional investment of a pregnancy...This responsibility can weigh a bit heavy. I explain to my pregnant patients that strange, anxiety-producing dreams are simply the psyche’s way of processing all that the conscious mind is already rationalizing'.

There is a strong correlation between the stage of pregnancy and general themes which occur during this period:

First Trimester: 1 - 3 months
Conception
Nature / fertility / fecundity
Water

Second Trimester: 4 - 6 months
Changed architecture/buildings reflecting growth of body
Journeys and travel
Animals

Third Trimester: 7 - 9 months
Specific dreams about labour, birth and the baby


Common dream themes for pregnant women:
  • DREAMING ABOUT CONCEPTION - dreams about conception are very common in early pregnancy. The conception may not be depicted as an act of sexual intercourse, it may be much more symbolic and metaphorical than that. Many women report seeing fish implant themselves into the bed of a stream, for example. A very common dream theme is for the woman to dream of being penetrated by a snake, or having a snake or serpent-like creature entering her body in some way. This about the symbolic significance of a snake - it is a very phallic object and likened to the male penis. The dream is one reflecting the process of sexual intercourse and conception. See also ANIMAL DREAMS, below.

  • DREAMING OF LABOUR / GIVING BIRTH - this seems obvious: your mind and body is preparing for the event of birth. Anxiety dreams or nightmares about birth are very common in a first pregnancy, or where a woman may have experienced a previous traumatic pregnancy or birth. Some birth dreams will show unrealistic or morbid interpretations of what birth will be like, for example, the baby's limbs emerging from the woman's body suddenly, when she is in a public place, or the baby bursting through the flesh of her abdomen, like an alien. The dream is not a prediction of what the birth will necessarily be like, it is just a subconscious projection of something which naturally you are anticipating or even fearing. Desire and hope for an easy birth may be reflected in a dream where the baby simply pops out spontaneously, or appears from nowhere. Remember, that dreams may have the advantage of preparing us mentally, or providing some kind of psychological practice or training for something we will be facing in our waking life, so dreams about labour and birth may be a very positive occurrence for this purpose. Research has drawn conclusions regarding women who experienced short labours v long labours. A strong connection was found between dream content and length of labour. The results found that 94% of women who gave birth quickly had been assertive in at least one dream about birth, reflecting their self-confidence and mental empowerment. Of those who endured long labours, 70% had suffered nightmares about birth where they felt like victims who were inadequately prepared for the process of birth.

  • DREAMING OF GIVING BIRTH TO ANIMALS OR INANIMATE OBJECTS - dreams of giving birth to animals or inanimate objects is very common. In Freud's The Interpretation of Dreams (1900), he reports of a woman dreaming of giving birth to a seal. Other common animals in pregnancy dreams include litters of kittens or puppies; laying an egg, or having a snake/serpent-like or reptilian creature emerging from the body. It may cause concern for the pregnant woman, who fears that dreams of giving birth to non-human offspring - or even monsters/alien-beings is a sign that their unborn baby is deformed or something terrible is going to happen, but this is not the case at all. These dreams are preparing the pregnant woman for the unknown, and usually the animal or object seen in the dream is a dream metaphor for the human baby, overlaid with the natural anxieties of the pregnant mother, who fears the unknown. The fact that some animals - especially baby mammals - cause instinctual nurturing feelings in humans should also be considered. The dream is preparing the pregnant woman for her role as a carer and protector of her baby (see ANIMAL DREAMS, below also).

  • DREAMING OF THE APPEARANCE, TRAITS, GENDER OR NAME OF THE UNBORN BABY - many women will experience dreams in which they are able to see their baby and identify certain physical or personality characteristics. Some women report that the physical or personality characteristics are negative or undesirable and this causes fears of anxiety. This is a natural dream response to a fear of the unknown, and not a prediction of the future. While some women can see the gender of their child, others may not be able to clearly identify whether the baby is a boy or a girl, or what it looks like. This is again, the dream reflecting the natural, expected anxieties of the unknown. Dreaming of the baby's gender simply reflects that gender is a theme which is on the mother's waking mind - especially if the gender has not yet been revealed by an ultrasound scan. Dreaming of the gender may also reflect a latent preference to have a baby of that gender. However, dreams are not like looking into a crystal ball and  predicting the future, so any dream in which the baby's gender is apparent should not be seen as 'evidence'. Some women may dream of a name for their unborn baby. In some cultures, the name which appears in the dreams of the pregnant mother hold significance and are deemed to be a sign that this is the correct name for the baby, but for others, the dream is just a process of the imagination, and the names which occur in the dream have no special meaning.

  • DREAMING OF A GROWN-UP CHILD - some pregnant women dream that their unborn child is grown-up. It may be because the mother is concerned that she will be soon responsible for a vulnerable and needy newborn, and the dream presents her with a matured child, who is less 'demanding' - showing her that she has the capability to raise the baby and protect it. If the mother is planning to return to work after the birth of her baby, the dream of grown-up children may reflect a worry that she will miss out on some aspects of her baby's growth and development.

  • DREAMING OF YOUR PARTNER CHEATING - this is a common dream theme, especially in the second trimester, when the body is undergoing (sometimes drastic) changes and the frequency or nature of sexual relations and intimacy with a partner may be adapting. Many pregnant women have a loss of confidence in their body and sexual attractiveness, and waking concerns that their partner may be turned off by weight gain, or beginning to perceive them as a maternal mother-figure rather than sexy. These concerns are being reflected in dreams about the partner cheating or having an affair, and should not be taken as evidence that this is happening in reality. Instead, the pregnant woman having these dreams should attempt to discuss them with her partner so that he might be able to offer her some support and reassurance. 

  • DREAMING OF DEAD RELATIVES - dreaming of dead relatives is a way of connecting the past (the family heritage or lineage) with the present and future - i.e. the new life about to begin with the birth of the baby. Pregnancy commonly causes dreams about the cycle of life, birth and death, because they are all concepts which are present in the conscious, waking mind as well. 

  • DREAMING OF CHILDHOOD HOME / FRIENDS - dreaming of the past may be a reflection on the past self, in preparation for the new adventures of motherhood and changes which are coming with it. The pregnant woman may be saying 'goodbye' to her old identity, as she approaches her new one, as mother. It is not surprising that a new mother may reconnect with her own childhood self in her dreams, or even see herself as a child again.

  • DREAMING OF MURDER / DEATH - as horrific as it seems, themes of death or violent murder often feature in the dreams of pregnant women. This isn't something to be alarmed about. Death in dreams should never be taken literally as a sign of actual death. Usually, death dreams are interpreted as signalling an ending or change in something. 

  • DRIVING / VEHICLES - vehicles, on a basic level, symbolise a journey or the process of moving forward in life. This reflects the situation facing a new mother and therefore dreams of driving are common for pregnant women. Also consider the fact that vehicles may carry cargo or passengers - symbolically this reflects the physical state of the mother, who is carrying precious cargo, in the form of her baby. Dreaming that you are driving unsafely or in some form of accident may indicate natural anxieties and concerns about the child in the womb - the mother is like the 'vehicle' for the baby who is a 'passenger' in her body, and the 'safe driving' of the mother is necessary for the protection of her child. If the vehicle in the dream is difficult to steer or maneuver, it may be a reference to the changes in the woman's body, which make it physically harder for her to move freely

  • JOURNEYS / TRAVELLING - again, the symbol of the journey can be interpreted as a possible indication of the life-changing journey the pregnant woman is embarking upon, either becoming a mother for the first time, or adding another child to her family. The journey may present itself as easy and taking a fast, direct route; or be a confusing, directionless or strenuous journey, where the mother dreams of being unprepared (not having packed a suitcase, unable to find travel documentation etc), getting lost or being confronted with obstacles. It is likely that the dream is reflective of her mental and emotional state at this time - she might be positive and optimistic and 'taking everything in her stride' or alternatively, weighed down, burdened and 'lost' in the enormity of the forthcoming adventure, unable to see which direction she is supposed to be travelling in. This is because everyone reacts differently to life's challenges. It may not necessarily be the prospect of motherhood which is causing anxiety in the dream, but other aspects of the mother's waking life, which is impacting on her stress levels. This is again a normal response, but if the pregnant woman has any concerns over her mental, emotional or physical well-being, the best thing to do is to seek medical advice to be on the safe side. It may just be that the woman requires some simple reassurance that everything is fine, or that she needs to reevaluate what it is in her waking life which can be changed to minimise and reduce her stress levels and help her relax in preparation for the arrival of her baby.

  • BUILDINGS / ARCHITECTURE - pregnant women often dream of buildings. The building which appears in the dream may be a simple room or a huge soaring skyscraper. The building may be a factory or workshop of some kind, as these are common types of buildings which occur in the dreams of pregnant women. Think about the symbolism of the building and what it might represent - a factory is a place where things are assembled, put-together and produced - reflecting the process of growing a baby inside the womb. The factory is symbolic of the act of creation. Also consider that a room or building is a place where people can be contained within. The room or building may be symbolic of the pregnant woman's womb. It is also very common for pregnant women to dream of much larger, taller buildings as their bodies changes and grows in later pregnancy.

  • BEING TRAPPED / SUBMERGED UNDER WATER - Often these dreams can reflect the fact that the pregnant woman is identifying with her unborn baby, who is trapped in the womb (in the amniotic fluid), but they may also indicate that she is feeling 'trapped' by the physical constraints - and pressures - of the pregnancy, or feels overwhelmed by the experience. The pregnant woman is aware that motherhood - to an extent - represents a loss or reduction in freedom; another human being will be dependent on her for survival, protection, support and care. It is unsurprising that this will provoke anxieties which are reflected in dream content. This shows that the pregnant woman is consciously aware about her forthcoming responsibilities and taking them seriously.

  • WATER / SWIMMING - this is a common dream theme during pregnancy, especially in first trimester dreams. Think about how we all start life - in the amniotic fluid of the mother's womb. It is therefore also common for pregnant women to dream of water-dwelling creatures - such as fish. Tadpoles - symbolic of the developing foetus - are also very common dream themes in early pregnancy. As the pregnancy progresses, many women report dreams of swelling oceans, crashing waves and flooding. These dreams may relate to the changes in the female body at this time, or simply anticipations of 'waters breaking' - a sign that labour and birth is imminent. Swimming is an incredibly common pregnancy dream theme as well, as the uterus and other parts of the pregnant body fill with fluid.

  • NATURE & FERTILITY SYMBOLISM - in the first trimester, it is very common for a pregnant woman to dream about symbols of fertility and fecundity. These dream symbols may manifest as gardens with flowers or plants in bloom, or ripe fruit. 

  • BLOOD - this is a theme which frequently occurs during menstruation or pregnancy. For a pregnant woman, blood may represent the new life she is carrying. It may also be an indication that she feels exhausted, or emotionally drained. On a more literal level, given that pregnancy causes an increased blood flow, it may be that the dream is reflecting the woman's awareness of the changes within her body, or perhaps the fact she associates blood loss with the birthing process.

  • DREAMING OF HAVING A NON-PREGNANT BODY - many women have dreams in which they are not pregnant - or they are, but show no physical signs to indicate this. These dreams may just be based on pre-pregnancy memories (we all dream about our earlier lives, such as regressing to childhood or previous situations we have been in), or simple anxiety about the changing shape of the pregnant body, and a normal desire to regain your former figure.

  • ANIMALS - dreaming of animals, especially baby animals is another very common theme. These animal dreams can be either cute or threatening for some pregnant women. The nature of the dream and the animals which appear in it may be influenced by the woman's waking thoughts and feelings about pregnancy, her partner and her unborn child. Nurturing animals in a dream occurring during pregnancy may reflect the motherly instincts and protective qualities of the woman. This would also be the case if the woman dreams she is defending a vulnerable animal from an attack of some sort. A dream about a threatening animal may simply be a reflection of the woman's anxieties about the arrival of her child. In the first trimester, metaphorical babies may be represented by small animals that grow (during the course of the pregnancy) into larger animals. Siegel states that: '[i]n a way you can look at [these dreams as] almost as having an evolutionary value because the 9 month pregnancy is when the member of the species prepares to protect and take care of their offspring that’s coming...Part of this growing prenatal psychological attachment that begins [in dreams] continues on when the child is born'. As stated, above snake dreams appear to be incredibly common during pregnancy. Snakes generally relate to instinct and intuition, and during pregnancy, women tend to be more intune with their instinctual side. This may be why snake dreams occur at this time - it is a sign that the woman should listen to and respect her natural intuition.

  • GAMES / SPORT - dreaming about games or sports is extremely common. This is symbolic of the excitement and thrill of pregnancy. Towards the end of the third trimester, many women report dreaming of boredom or waiting - especially waiting for a score or result. This is a reflection of the natural impatience for the arrival of the child. After 9 months of gestation, there is no wonder the pregnant woman is keen for the arrival of the baby, and bored of waiting in anticipation!

  • CONTROL & POWER - many pregnant women dream of scenarios where they are required to be assertive and take control. This may be within the context of a nightmare, where they have to fight off an enemy or negative force, or a more pleasant dream where they acquire superpowers which they are able to use in imaginative ways. This is a sign that the woman is preparing for the birth of the child, and the challenges of being a mother. Taking control and gaining power are positive symbols of motherhood, preparing the woman for becoming the protector and carer of her vulnerable baby. These dreams may sometimes seem scary or daunting, but it is a sign that the subconscious is responding to forthcoming changes in the woman's life and the role she will be taking in relation to her child.

  • EROTIC / SEX DREAMS - many pregnant women report an increase in erotic or sexual dreams while pregnant. There may be a psychological or a physical reason for this. Firstly, the woman may have some anxieties about her changing body and how pregnancy/birth/motherhood will affect her sexual attractiveness, relationship with her partner and sex life. A reduction in the amount of sex the woman experiences at this point in life, may lead to a compensation in the dreamworld - the sex dreams are 'making up' for what is not happening (or happening less frequently or with less intensity) in her waking relationship. Another reason is the fact that there is increased blood flow in the lower body and the growing baby is putting additional pressure on the pelvic area of the pregnant mother, which can lead to sexual dreams. Note that in non-pregnant women (and men!), laying on your front while asleep is known to increase the likelihood of erotic or sexual dreams due to blood being directed into the pelvic area and the pressure on the sexual organs/genitals from laying in this position.

  • ACCIDENTALLY HARMING / ABANDONING / FORGETTING THE BABY - pregnant women may dream that they accidentally drop a baby, or that the baby they are holding in a dream breaks into pieces. Some women dream of losing or forgetting the baby - such as leaving it in a public place. These anxiety-dreams are also common after the baby's arrival. This is because the woman may be dealing with the overwhelming feeling of being responsible for protecting and nurturing their child, and fears and concerns about performing this task well are reflected in their dreams or nightmares. Dreams should not be taken literally at face value, but it is true that dreams also do reflect underlying concerns and worries, so if the pregnant woman has any doubt about the health of herself or her baby, she must consult a doctor, who will be able to check the situation and provide reassurance and advice. Nielsen suggests that dreams about accidentally harming, breaking, abandoning or forgetting a baby may be a sign the pregnant woman does not feel adequately prepared (psychologically) for motherhood. In interpreting the meaning of such dreams, attention should be paid to emotional themes, rather than the content. It is the underlying emotions which reveal more clues as to the meaning and significance of the dream, and unlocking these underlying emotions will enable the pregnant woman - or new mother - to discuss these issues and access the right support for her and her baby.

  • DEFORMITY / MISCARRIAGE / STILLBIRTH - please try not to worry if you have nightmarish dreams of deformity in the foetus/baby, miscarriage or stillbirth. These are common dream themes, reflecting normal fears of the unknown and concerns about safeguarding and protecting your baby. There is no expectant mother who doesn't at least once, avert their mind to the worry that their unborn baby is at risk: every mother wishes for a healthy and happy child. The first thing to do, if you have dreams of this nature, is to seek medical reassurance. Doctors are typically very sensitive to the instincts and intuitions of pregnant women and will be able to act on  any real concerns, whether it be performing a health check on the mother or baby, or providing additional support which will help put the expectant mother's mind at rest. The other thing to remember is that dreams are not always reflective of reality in a literal sense; they are symbolic and complex in meaning. They are not an accurate prediction of the future or determinative of what is actually happening in waking life, even if they do correspond with real-life events and experiences. 

  • GENERAL NIGHTMARES - nightmares tend to happen when we are at our most emotionally vulnerable or experiencing stress and anxiety about something in our waking life. Therefore nightmares which occur in pregnancy are completely natural, and may reflect a range of concerns faced by the pregnant woman, such as changes to her body; the pain of birth; coping with a new baby; or her relationship with her partner.


Common dream themes for expectant fathers:
There are 3 types of dreams which seem to be most common amongst expectant fathers, although of course, this doesn’t mean there are no other popular dream themes which may occur at this time:

  • FEARS THAT FATHERHOOD WILL COMPROMISE MASCULINITY - during the first few months, men with pregnant partners are likely to have many more sexual dreams than usual, according to an intriguing study conducted by psychologist Alan Siegel in Berkeley, California. At the same time he is having an unusual number of sexual dreams, an expectant father often dreams of protecting and caring for his mate. The sexual dream theme usually reduces in frequency as the mother-to-be progresses into her second trimester. Early in their partner’s pregnancy, the fathers-to-be in his study dreamed of having sex with their partners, with other women, with prostitutes, or sometimes with other men. Siegel speculates that the protective feelings a man develops toward his partner and unborn child may be threatening to his masculinity. His sexual dreams and other traditionally ‘macho’ visions (such as triumphs on the football field or in warfare/fighting) may express a need to be more ‘masculine’ and offer subconscious reassurance. This research is premised on ‘traditional’ notions of masculinity, which is a perspective which comes under challenge in gender debates. Whether the father-to-be has anxiety over his masculinity and how this presents itself in the dream would largely depend on variable factors, such as socio-cultural contexts and whether the man identifies with traditional notions of masculinity or gender stereotypes in the first place. 

  • FEELING EXCLUDED - during the second trimester, an expectant father's dreams become less dominated by sexuality and more protective and nurturing. He may find himself thinking and dreaming about his family or heritage. It is often common for the expectant father to experience himself being pregnant and giving birth in the dream. Although he recognizes the female’s unique role as child-bearer, these dreams may reflect his desire to share the experience and process of pregnancy and birth on a more physical level. Expectant fathers often feel left out at this stage of their partner's pregnancy. More than half of subjects studied in Siegel’s research dreamed of feeling excluded and alone. Confiding troublesome dreams to one's partner can help men overcome feelings of loneliness and keep the couple in touch, while trading happy dreams can increase confidence and intimacy. 

  • ANTICIPATING / CELEBRATING FATHERHOOD - a father-to-be will often anticipate the birth of a child in his dreams just as his pregnant partner does. It is common for fathers dream of finding babies or of being given them, sometimes during elaborate ceremonies or rites which appear to have deep symbolic significance. While a woman may be dreaming of the work involved in her forthcoming labour, her mate may be concentrating on dream celebrations of the baby's birth. Dreams of this kind indicate acceptance and valuing of the child whose arrival is imminent.

ADVICE & GUIDANCE
Nothing in this article replaces the need to seek professional medical treatment if there are any concerns as to mental or physical health and wellbeing. Always trust your instincts and obtain proper advice if in any doubt. However, pregnant women may consider a few additional pointers on how to deal with the changes in pregnancy. 

First, take opportunities to communicate and discuss any issues - or dreams - with your partner. This can help in re-establishing intimacy and trust, and encourage your partner to share and empathise with changes emotional, psychological and physical changes during pregnancy that they may either be unaware of, or simply lack understanding in. Remember, this may all be just as scary or overwhelming for them, and being open and candid can help them feel connected to the experience and encourage them to provide support and care. 

Obviously eating healthily and wholesomely, taking regular, gentle (and medically-endorsed) physical exercise, staying hydrated and ensuring you are getting the right vitamins and minerals in your diet are all starting points for pregnant women. Consider adding regular meditation sessions as well - this will assist in relaxing and re-focusing the mind and reducing stress and anxiety levels at this crucial time. Meditation need not be complicated: if you are unable to participate in a guided meditation session in a group environment, find some Youtube videos which will teach you some basic techniques, or act as a guided session in the comfort of your own home. Alternatively, you could just play some relaxing music or other sounds and take some time out from your busy day to settle into a comfortable position, with your eyes closed and clear your mind, focusing on your breathing. A simple technique, such as this, can do wonders for your stress levels. 

Treat yourself to a spa session, specialising in pregnancy massage and/or aromatherapy treatments. It's always pleasurable to pamper yourself and escape from the stresses and strains of everyday life, but pregnancy can cause extra tension, both physically and mentally, whether it be aching muscles, water retention, exhaustion or just the result of hormonal fluctuations taking their toll on emotions. Indulging in enjoyable and relaxing treatments can be beneficial for the mind and body, and gives a pregnant woman an opportunity to focus on herself before the arrival of her baby. Involving your partner in massage tailored for pregnant women (with the assistance of a book or kit) can also help with intimacy and getting your partner to feel more involved.

It is essential that pregnant women get enough restful and restorative sleep. If you are having difficulty sleeping, consult your doctor, and ask about natural sleep aids and remedies which are safe to take during pregnancy. 

Sunday, 13 March 2016

DREAM INTERPRETATION: Weapons & Violence in Dreams (Knives, Guns, Bombs etc)

I have previously written a very popular Blog post about knives and stabbings in dreams. This was inspired by the fact that I have experienced many knife/stabbings dreams throughout my life and then noticed that it seemed to be a very common/popular theme after doing some internet research on the topic. As a result I wrote an article about how to interpret knife/stabbing dreams, sourcing material from many different perspectives and cultural backgrounds. You can read the original article by clicking on this link - 'Interpreting popular dream themes (5) - Knives & Stabbing'.

For a more Freudian perspective on weapons and violence in dreams, you may wish to read my article 'All Sex and Violence: Freud's interpretation of dreams and evolutionary theory' and also 'Sex Symbols: An Introduction to Phallic & Yonic Dream Symbolism'.

The response to my initial article on knife and stabbing dreams was completely overwhelming. Not only is it the most searched for and viewed post on my Blog, but many people contact me every week asking me to interpret their knife/stabbing dreams. The majority of people asking me to interpret the dream experience anxiety or confusion about the dream and why it occurred; especially since quite often the 'victim' of the stabbing in the dream tends to be a loved one. 

I have always stated that dream interpretation must be a mixture of analysing the objective symbolism (knives objectively relate to violence of some kind in all cultures, although there may be other cultural meanings or associations), but also the subjective thoughts, emotions, memories or person associations that arise, not only from the specific symbol of the knife and act of stabbing, but also other elements of the 'manifest content' (the surface content, imagery and language of the dream), such as dream scene locations, dream characters, objects, dream speech etc. It is not as simple as saying X always means this; Y always means that. 

To some, a knife/stabbing may represent a specific memory of an event; for others it may have meaning which goes beyond the surface symbolism and has been transformed or changed (by the 'dream work') to mean something so complex to the dreamer that it would be impossible for an outsider to interpret without using a method of dream interpretation such as Freudian Psychoanalytic Technique (those readers who are familiar with my Blog will note the Freudian language I have been using in this article). Therefore, I thought that I would write a new article which covers some of the same ideas and information as the previous one, but in an updated form to reflect some of the questions and queries I have received from my readers/viewers as I really want to help them unlock the meaning of their dreams. I thought that I would also include other forms of violence and weapons which may be experienced in a dream.

KNIVES, BLADES & STABBING DREAMS
  • Blades (General)
A blade generally indicates that the dreamer is making some important or difficult decisions in their waking life. You must be able to make clear distinctions between available choices and may be walking a 'thin line' and must balance aspects of your life carefully. 

It may represent the idea that a problem or issue in your waking life needs to be carved up; cut into smaller pieces in order to make it more manageable ir understandable. The symbol of the knife mainly relates to division or separation - this may be the desire of the dreamer (a wish to cut something out) or a fear/anxiety that they will become separated or cut off from someone or something. 

In some dream interpretations, a knife may symbolise sharp wit or a 'cutting tongue' - it might be that there is a reference to verbal aggression or someone who makes cutting remarks or judgements about the dreamer. It may be that these are traits of the dreamer themselves. Think about the common English language idioms 'to stick the knife in' or 'stab someone in the back' or 'get the knives out' - these all relate to notions that someone is being criticised or attacked in some way. 

Typically, the symbol of the knife will represent an aggressiveness, although not necessarily always in a negative context. The knife - which has the ability to penetrate - is usually perceived as being representative of the masculine. In some dream interpretations the knife may symbolise a relationship of control and oppression/threat - someone or something in a relationship is 'cutting you down' in some way. Alternatively the knife may be a sign that there is someone or something that you need to cut out of your waking life in order to improve a situation. 

These general meanings need to be analysed within the context of the dream and the other dream language/symbolism and themes; who else is in the dream? who do the dream characters represent or what do they symbolise? what other clues to meaning does the dream contain? These are all questions which need to be considered when attempting to solve the subjective meaning of a knife/stabbing dream.

Carrying a knife in a dream represents anger, aggression, emotional conflict, division and separation. There is something in the dreamer's waking life that needs to be cut out or get rid of. It may be that the dreamer needs to sever ties or end a certain relationship. The knife symbol may also indicate sexual tension or confrontation

A knife may symbolise a need to get everything out in the open - so problems in the dreamer's waking life can be successfully confronted. Because knives are used to cut, slice and penetrate, this symbol will also relate to a need to delve deeper into a matter in order to bring about greater understanding and resolution.
  • Observing a Knife
If the dreamer merely observes a knife in their dream, this refers to frustration, anger and aggression. It can reflect the dreamer's insecurity and need for protection or reassurance of some sort. 
  • Multiple Knives
A set of knives reflects inner turmoil and the fact that the dreamer is 'battling' with himself. The dreamer may be pushing himself to act in a manner which will cause pain to himself and those close to him, but is being inhibited by his mind.
  • Female Chased by a Man with a Knife
If the dreamer is female, dreaming of being chased by a man with a knife, this typically symbolises a fear that the dreamer will be dumped and become single - they perceive that they are struggling to keep their partner happy or failing at keeping the relationship happy and stable in some way. Alternatively, it may represent the woman's desire to avoid aggressive sexual advances - a fear of penetration and masculine power. A knife may symbolise sexual immaturity and a danger in allowing this to be acted on in an unrestrained manner
  • Males Dreaming of Knives
Male dreamers often dream of knives when facing conflict over opposing ideas and agendas. A knife is symbolic of a piercing mind and intellect - if sharp and able to easily slice/cut through objects. If blunt, it will represent the opposite - an inability to get through to the heart of the matter. The dreamer may not be using his critical mind to get to the truth or core of an issue affecting his waking life. If the knife seen in the dream is double-edged - it shows an ability to both attack (i.e. impose one's will on others) and defend.

Please note that I am not a fan of gendered dream meanings usually. I recognise that some dreams will be gendered by their nature - for example, a female may be more likely to dream of being pregnant or a mother, just by virtue of the fact that biologically only a female can experience these life events, although that does not suggest that a male might not dream about this themes. My issue with gendered dream interpretations is that they tend to focus on 'traditional' gender roles and generally, there has been progression in our understanding of sex/gender which contradicts a lot of these stereotypes or assumptions meaning that traditional interpretations are no longer credible or sustainable. Therefore, as with all information about dream interpretation which suggest a specific meaning can be placed onto dream themes and symbolism, the dreamer should take the 'objective' meaning of the dream as a starting point and then apply their own understanding and personal experience, rather than simply accepting the notion that there is only one meaning which applies to everyone.
  • Being Stabbed in a Dream
To dream of another person holding a knife represents a loss of control or power in a situation or relationship - the matter is out of the dreamer's hands and in control of someone else. It may be that the dreamer perceives this situation as harmful or threatening to their interests. The person holding the knife may be symbolic of a source of dominant masculine power in the dreamer's waking life. To dream of being stabbed symbolises the dreamer being wounded by someone's words or actions - particularly within a domestic scenario. 

A knife wound symbolises masculine or animalistic aggression and power

It may also represent feelings of guilt, shame and disgrace. The dreamer perceives that someone wants to see them lose or get hurt in some way. The dreamer may be placing themselves - or perceiving themselves to be - in a position where they are vulnerable and open to being victimised by someone or a situation in their waking life. 

Being attacked by many knives at the same time is indicative that the dreamer perceives himself to have many enemies or opponents and suggests a need to take pre-emptive action to protect oneself
  • Stabbing Another Person in a Dream
A dream of stabbing (the dreamer stabbing or the dreamer being stabbed by another) may indicate a struggle for power, inadequacy, betrayal or sudden shock

Dreaming of stabbing someone else represents the fact that the dreamer is taking out their anger or aggression on others. It may represent a desire to restore the dreamer's independence in a relationship or situation. It can also symbolise wanting to feel another's pain or know your actions are hurting them. The dreamer may also wish to take someone important away from someone else

Dreams of stabbing someone else are incredibly common and one of the main dream themes I am asked to interpret. If a dreamer wishes to understand why they are dreaming or have dreamt about stabbing someone else (or attacking them with a knife), they should consider the following:
  • Is this a dream character or a real-life person known to the dreamer? If it is a dream character, did this DC have any qualities/characteristics/traits which indicate who they symbolically represent? Focus on who the dream character may be and any personal associations linked to this person/a person in a certain role (such as a boss or authority figure for example)
  • If the person in the dream represents someone the dreamer can identify from their waking life, what are the dreamer's waking thoughts and feelings about the person they are stabbing/attacking with the knife? What is the state of the relationship with this person? Positive? Negative?
  • Does the dreamer have any actual memories or personal associations linked to knives? For example, a childhood accident? To give an odd analogy I always associate plastic knives with cream cheese - I cannot say why, but I assume that at some forgotten point in my life I used a plastic knife to spread cream cheese and this memory has endured, albeit in a vague form.
  • Cutting Yourself with a Knife
Cutting yourself with your own knife is symbolic of deception or disappointment. It may be that the dreamer is deceiving themselves and is aware of the fact and that confronting the truth of a matter may hurt them. 
  • Different Types of Knives/Stabbing/Cutting Dreams (Random)
Highly polished knives may indicate worry or anxiety. Giving a knife to someone as a gift symbolises the severing of a relationship with the person receiving the knife from the dreamer, or vice versa. If someone gives the dreamer a knife as a gift/present, it may mean that the dreamer perceives that person (the knife-giver) as someone who wants to sever their relationship or separate themselves from the dreamer in some way. Depending on who the knife-giver dream character is, and how the dreamer views them in waking life will determine whether this is experienced as positive or negative.

A broken blade indicates ambiguity, ambivalence or confusion regarding the waking life decision. The dreamer may have experienced counter-productive circumstances from their current actions. It may also symbolise the idea that anger is not the solution to problems - it is a warning to address waking situations calmly. Rusty knives represent dissatisfaction, domestic disputes and the separation of lovers - the relationship is perceived by the dreamer as being tarnished, ruined and useless or irreparable in some way.

A butter knife symbolises ease and simplicity. Attempting to cut something with a butter knife indicates ineffectual actions and difficulty in completing tasks. The dreamer is lacking some skill, knowledge or insight and may be embarrassed by their impotence or failure to perform. The butter knife may also symbolise the act of spreading something around; gossip/disease etc; or that the dreamer/someone represented in the dream is 'buttering someone up'.

A dull or blunt knife symbolises the fact that hard work will lead to little gain or a bad result. The dreamer is putting far too much effort into a waking life situation and is not getting enough success or reward to justify continuing to work at it or try to achieve what they are hoping for - consider adopting a new stance or technique, as the current approach is 'not cutting it'. The way they are handling a waking life problem - their coping mechanisms or methods are not fit for purpose. Another interpretation of a blunt knife is that the dreamer is aware or fears they may be unable to defend themselves adequately; it may be that they feel under attack in their waking life and subconsciously recognise that they are unprepared/unarmed and therefore unable to protect themselves. As Freud symbolised weapons - particularly those which are long, pointed and have the ability to penetrate flesh as represented the male phallus, a blunt knife which cannot cut or perform as it should may reflect the dreamer's fears of sexual impotence.

A knife grinder/sharpener represents a loss of freedom and autonomy, or additionally, a heightened desire for separation or conflict in the dreamer's waking life. The dreamer is preparing or improving their ability to face such conflict or strengthen their power against an enemy - sharpening their 'weapons' ready to tackle something they feel strongly about. Also, a knife grinder appearing in a dream may indicate that someone is taking liberties with the dreamer's personal possessions. If the dreamer is female, the symbol of the knife grinder represents unhappy union and drudgery. A dreamer who dreams of sharpening a knife may be facing sexual temptation or the instinct to cheat on a partner or friend.

Dreaming of a pocketknife represents the notion that a good friend is hiding his or her true feelings, or alternatively, confidence that the dreamer can deal with any problem which suddenly arises - they are armed and prepared. It may also be interpreted as a sign the dreamer is repressing or hiding a problem in his waking life - typically feelings of anger and resentment, given the typically aggressive meaning attributed to the symbol of the knife/blade.

A penknife represents hidden intentions (because it is usually associated with being hidden in a pocket and may be disguised as another item - i.e. with the blade folded away) to defend a permanent choice or decision in the dreamer's life. It can indicate preparedness to stand your ground or an inability to discuss your true feelings with others

A dream about an electric knife represents the dreamer's power to get down to the truth of a situation quickly and easily - it presents little work for the dreamer and they can slice through the peripheral/surface of something to get to the heart of the matter. 

A butcher's knife represents conflict which is severe, drastic or unsympathetic. A butcher's knife is usually bigger, sharper and more dangerous/brutal than a normal domestic one - it has to be able to go through flesh, sinew, muscle and bone. There is a problematic person in the dreamer's waking life (or a situation causing some problems to the dreamer) which requires the dreamer to give 100%, but does not offer any reward or anything in return. Someone wants the dreamer to fail. A butcher's knife may also symbolise unyielding beliefs or absolute unwillingness to compromise when dealing with such issues. The dreamer may fear that someone is out to get them, leaving them with nothing - or these actions on the part of the dreamer in relation to another person. A meat cleaver represents bravery and courageousness - and the ability to distinguish between right and wrong

Dreaming of being sliced by a knife during an operation is symbolic that something needs to be cut from the dreamer's waking life. The dreamer needs to make a drastic change or change their habits. If the dreamer is performing the operation on another, this means they are facing a deep problem or dealing with repressed issues. They are 'cutting away' the layers to reveal and deal with what lies beneath the surface.

Finding a knife in a dream represents luck and profit in the dreamer's waking life. To pick up a knife symbolises that the dreamer is facing some quarrel or dispute which needs to be addressed. A knife in a sheath or scabbard represent a buried or settled quarrel or problem. A knife on a covered table indicates to the dreamer that he can rely on his friends' loyalty, while a knife seen with other household appliances or objects symbolises an invitation of some sort. Losing a knife tends to indicate loss in business, assets of financial security.
  • Typical Islamic Interpretations of Knife Dreams
In many cultures, the knife is symbolic of survival, protection and retribution. Islamic interpretations of the symbol of the knife state that the knife is representative of the dreamer's servant, right-hand man or someone else who protects the dreamer's interests in some way. The sharpness of the knife represents the implementation of the dreamer's will. 

A knife entering a sheath - like in Freudian dream interpretations - would symbolise male penetration of a female. If a bachelor obtains a knife in a dream, it is a symbol that he is to soon be married or feels ready and prepared for marriage, whereas if a woman dreams of handing a knife to another woman, the knife symbolises the love interest of the dreamer - it may be the surrender of her claim to this person's heart

Swallowing a knife represents the idea that the dreamer will 'consume' or take some of their child's inheritance or resources intended for their offspring

Typically, in Islamic interpretations of the knife symbol, the knife will represent the dreamer's son. For example, some interpretations suggest that dreaming of stealing a knife indicates heightened love for a son over and above other children of the family, while dreaming that you have been given a knife as your sole weapon is indicative that you will have a son, or find some form of brotherhood with another male - particularly in situations of conflict. If a pregnant woman dreams of a knife, it symbolises that she will give birth to (or hopes to give birth to) a male child. Like a knife, a male is considered to be an asset to the household.

Lacerating your own hands with a knife in a dream suggests that the dreamer is to witness something spectacular in their waking life. Holding a knife means that finances are due to come to the dreamer, although if the knife is poor or deficient in some way, this may be less than expected or needed

A table knife represents someone who is lazy and cheats at their work, while using a table knife symbolises the fact that a project supported by the dreamer is void or will not come into fruition

Strangely, if a teacher or someone who has care and responsibility for children dreams of stealing a knife, Islamic interpretations suggest that this means the dreamer is sexually tempted by children and has desires to abuse a child in their care. I am not sure whether this is a particularly apt interpretation - it is extremely dangerous to link what is essentially an innocent dream experience (we should have no moral qualms or guilt associated with our dreams, as we are - unless lucid - not in control of what we dream of) with a very heinous and evil waking predisposition or propensity. Obviously, care should be taken when reading meanings into any dream. I am not an expert in Islamic dream interpretation, but include Islamic interpretations I have found (and cross-referenced) during my research for completeness and because many of my valued readers request the inclusion of this information. I do not endorse any particular interpretation, especially none which posit that all dreams can be interpreted according to objective and universal symbolism and meanings.

Islamic interpretation of the knife symbol also highlights the meanings of proof or evidence - the dreamer may require a witness to assist him in his 'testimony' or 'trials' - a sharp knife would indicate that this 'witness' will come up to proof, while a blunt knife means the opposite. To dream of a 'trial' where the dreamer carries a knife which is sheathed, indicates the dreamer will defend themselves perfectly by themselves, without the assistance of others. A knife sharpener represents a teacher of adroitness, sageness or skills - and additionally, the dignified bearer of adversity, sobriety or a decisive person. In the negative, it can symbolise a troublemaker or vile personality who possesses some of these traits. 
  • Freudian Interpretation of Knife/Stabbing Dreams
Freudian interpretation of a knife, blade - or anything sharp and pointed which can cut or penetrate - typically refers to the psycho-sexual and phallic, specifically the penis. The dreamer who dreams of objects with a sharp edge desire to rush headlong into instinctual action without restraint.
  • Daggers
Daggers tend to relate to ideas of sacrifice - consider who the dagger is pointing at. If it is pointing at the dreamer, it may mean that they will have to make a sacrifice or compromise in their waking life. If it is pointed at someone else in the dream, it may be that the dreamer perceives it necessary for this person to make the sacrifice. Like most weapon dreams, a dagger dream can be interpreted as a 'defence dream' or an 'attack dream' depending on the context.
  • Swords
A sword is a symbol of power and bravery, because we associate sword fights with knights/warriors and historical warfare. Fighting with a sword may therefore be a sign that the dreamer is fighting for some form of honour or 'cause' and is willing to stand up for that they believe in. Like all dreams about bladed weapons, the sword dream may be interpreted as a symbol of division and separation - the dreamer needs to consider if there is anything in their waking life they are trying to 'cut out'. Typically, due to the heroic associations, the sword is a positive dream symbol and may be linked to idealism and justice. If the sword is double-edged, this may reflect the fact that a situation has two sides to it; one may be positive and the other negative, although it may not be clear to the dreamer. There is also a competitiveness associated with swords - it is a sign of dominance and authority. If the dreamer dreams that their sword is taken from them by another, it may indicate that they are in a losing position in a particular waking 'battle' and may need to surrender.
GUNS
Dreaming of a gun is a sign that the dreamer may be experiencing or feeling sexual aggression. Dreams about guns tend to be associated with violence, for obvious reasons, and the main interpretations being aggression, anger and perception/feelings of danger. The gun is a powerful symbol which can represent protection, attack or defence, depending on the context in which is appears in the dream. Gun dreams are often interpreted as reflecting potential conflicts of passiveness and aggressiveness; authority and dependence. The dreamer may be seeking shelter and protection, as symbolised by the image of the gun. A gun is symbolic of power and pride.

Freudian dream interpretation suggests that most weapons represent sexuality and sexual power. A gun being fired may be symbolised as ejaculation

Consider what type of gun is seen in the dream - is it an automatic/machine gun, which has the potential to spray rounds of ammunition without aim or focus? This may mean that the dreamer's anger is not directed at anyone, but had the potential to cause chaos in a general situation. Is it a revolver? Is there a situation in the dreamer's waking life where they feel something is repetitive or going round in circles? Is it a handgun/pistol and therefore easily concealed? Is it a shotgun and therefore associated with being pre-emptive? A smoking gun may be a sign of guilt. Here are some possible interpretations based on the type of gun which is observed in the dream:

A rifle  may represent a decision or action taken by the dreamer (or someone else represented in the dream) which is precise and targeted towards a certain outcome which was in that person's sights. The dreamer was aiming perfectly for a certain outcome. Whether the dreamer manages to successfully hit their target is symbolic of whether they achieve their aim. Seeing a rifle in a dream may also reflect the dreamer being specific in communicating a problem in their waking life. Therefore, on the whole, the rifle is seen as a positive dream symbol in this respect. 

A shotgun represents a decision or action which has the power to have long-lasting and significant consequences, either for the dreamer or another person. Typically, the shotgun will represent a decision which is dramatic and perhaps sudden and ill-conceived, hasty or unwise. A shotgun can deal with a problem - or react to it - in a single shot. If a 'bad person' (dream character) is holding a shotgun, it may be that they are acting in a way which is sabotaging the dreamer's situation. This meaning is even more relevant where the gun is a sawn-off shotgun. The shotgun may also symbolise the seeking of revenge.

A revolver symbolises the dreamer's awareness that they are faced with limited decisions or a lack of choice - they have few opportunities to act and may be under pressure.

A machine gun reflects a decision which decimates or wipes out all other options - it is an 'all or nothing' scenario which removes all other options. The dreamer may be cutting down all obstacles which block their way in a certain aspect of their waking life; and not letting anything affect or influence their decisions or choices. The dreamer may also be taking out all the competition which is in their path. The dreamer may also have a complete lack of awareness of the possible consequences of their actions because they are responding with instant anger and aggression, and not thinking through their actions - in effect, they are out of control in a particular area of their waking life. Therefore they are risking massive collateral damage. Dreaming of being attacked by a machine gun is symbolic of a fear that the dreamer will be overpowered by a situation, with multiple areas of their waking life being threatened at the same time. Decisions made by another person - who perhaps represents competition or opposition to the dreamer - have a massive impact on the dreamer and they are unable to adequately defend themselves from the fall-out. 

A handgun or pistol tends to reflect self-preservation and protection. The dreamer is trying to prevent change or influence (by another) over a waking decision or situation and is therefore exerting control and acting in defence.

Bullets/ammunition represent power or influence; inner strength or resistance. It may be that the dreamer has self belief i.e. 'emotional ammunition'. In a more negative context, bullets may represent a poor decision which has turned against the dreamer in some way. If the ammunition is stored in boxes, it may be that the dreamer has the necessary motivation, resources and reserves to confront a threatening situation, or may be a sign that the dreamer anticipates the danger of competition. Bullets and ammunition are also associated with the temptation posed by negative habits or emotions. Dreaming that someone else has bullets which could be fired at the dreamer may be a sign that the dreamer feels under threat and perceives (or knows) that someone has 'ammunition' against them.

  • Shooting Someone Else with a Gun
  • Shooting someone else with a gun may be a sign that the dreamer is hiding or repressing anger towards someone (symbolised by the dream character who is being shot at by the dreamer) in their waking life. By pointing a gun at another person, the dreamer may be blaming them for something - who is the dreamer 'gunning for'?

    Shooting someone else with a gun has been linked to the act of making a decision - 'biting the bullet'. Is the dreamer is shooting a 'bad person' it may be that they are making a decision in their waking life to overcome negative patterns of thinking or behaviour, whereas shooting a 'good person' may be a sign that the dreamer is succumbing or surrendering to something negative and making a poor waking life decision which has immoral implications.

  • Being Shot by Someone Else
  • Being shot by someone else in a dream may be a sign that other people are trying to help the dreamer make necessary changes in their waking life and the dreamer should place their trust in such people. The dreamer may feel victimised or singled out for some reason - it is possible that they are experiencing some form of confrontation in their waking life. 

    Being shot in a dream may represent the fact that the dreamer's waking life decisions have embarrassed them or failed in some way. A waking situation has turned on the dreamer as a result of a bad decision/choice - it may not necessarily be a decision or choice the dreamer had control over, it may be that someone else had acted in a way which has harmed the dreamer.

    If the dream character shooting at the dreamer misfires or fails to hit their target in some way, it is possible that the 'competition' or 'opposition' has failed to control the dreamer in an aspect of their waking life. 

    A 'bad person' with a gun is a symbol of negative personality traits or emotions that might control the dreamer's decision-making (i.e. fear, guilt, dishonesty, jealousy etc) or a bad situation which the dreamer fears could get out of control. In the alternative, a 'good person' with a gun represents the positive personality traits or emotions which may be governing a waking situation (i.e. courage, confidence, honesty etc).

    If the dreamer dies from a gun shot it may be that the dreamer has failed in some way and has been overpowered by another person or a situation out of their control. It is possible that the dreamer is feeling they have been excluded or been shut out from something.
    • Having a Gun Pointed at You
    If the dreamer has a gun pointed at them this may represent the fact that someone (whoever is represented by the dream character pointing the gun) is targeting the dreamer with negativity in their waking life.
    • Shooting Yourself with a Gun
    Dreaming of shooting yourself with a gun may represent the fact that you are putting yourself at a disadvantage in your waking life (consider the English idiom 'shooting yourself in the foot'). The dream may symbolise a need to reevaluate the dreamer's waking life in order to make some improvements. Accidentally shooting yourself with a gun is emblematic of 'screwing yourself over' or acting with oversight of some important factor or issue. The dreamer may feel they are not competent or responsible enough to handle the power they have been given over some aspect of their waking life. If the dreamer is shooting themselves on purpose it is reflective of a situation where they are self-imposing failure.
    • Witnessing a Shooting
    Witnessing a shooting may represent a shocking or sudden final decision being made - there is some form of change in process. It may be that something is being ended or terminated ruthlessly (consider what/who it is which is being shot at). Something is failing or being cancelled out and there may be a conflict of interests at the heart of a waking life situation.
    • Loading a Gun
    Loading a gun may be a sign that the dreamer needs to control their temper and are ready to defend themselves. The same interpretation is often given when gunpowder appears in the dream - there is the potential that events may 'blow up in the face of the dreamer' i.e. the dreamer's anger may backfire on them and have bad consequences. The dreamer is being warned that they need to be controlled and cautious. 
    • Gun Fails to Fire
    If a gun fails to fire or jams in some way this may mean that the dreamer feels powerless in a waking situation and may need to approach the situation from a different angle or perspective. The dreamer may not feel equipped to make an effective waking life decision or choice and may lack courage or will-power. A malfunctioning gun may also reveal fears of sexual impotence - or actual sexual impotence. This is because Freud associated weapons such as guns or knives with the penis (the male phallus).
    • Hiding a Gun
    Hiding a gun may be a symbol that the dreamer is repressing their anger.
    BOMB/EXPLOSIVES DREAMS
    • Bombs
    A dream about a bomb may literally symbolise the fact that the dreamer is in a potential (or actual) waking life situation which is explosive (either emotionally or physically).

    A bomb may also symbolise a sudden shocking announcement or piece of news which has significant consequences. Think about the phrase 'dropping a bombshell'. Typically the symbol of the bomb in a dream will be linked - like all weapons - to aggression, violence, dominance, masculinity, threat, danger and sexuality. In popular culture sexy women are described as 'bombshells' and in the Freudian context, a bomb exploding is often linked to orgasm, which is an explosive climax. More that most other 'weapons' dreams, dreams about bombs symbolise vast and sudden changes which can happen out of the blue and for which the dreamer may be wholly unprepared. Of course, dreaming of bombs may also reflect waking fears about war, conflict, terrorism and a breakdown in order and harmony.

    If the dreamer is making a bomb it is likely that they are under enormous pressure and unable to find a solution, so are considering drastic and highly detrimental measures out of desperation and despair. The dreamer needs to remain calm and controlled and reassess the situation.

    A bomb threat can symbolise the anger, aggression and outbursts which the dreamer is repressing. These feelings are building up and coming to the surface and making the dreamer feel that they are about to explode. The dreamer is under pressure and needs to relieve some of the tension building in themselves. A timebomb would also have the same potential interpretation attached to it - think about the phrase 'ticking timebomb' - a threat is imminent and is causing panic and anxiety in the dreamer who knows that events have the potential to be explosive and destructive. The dreamer is anticipating the forthcoming and inevitable consequences of something they fear greatly.

    The dreamer may also feel threatened or terrorized by someone or something in their waking life. 

    Defusing a bomb is often a positive dream symbol as it shows that the dreamer is acting under immense pressure, but has maintained some degree of control and precision and been able to avoid the explosive consequences which the situation threatened. The dreamer may have figured out a way to avoid or diffuse a potentially volatile waking life situation effectively and has therefore been successful in solving a problem

    Seeking shelter from a bomb/a bomb shelter typically suggests that the dreamer is protecting themselves from the angry or explosive outbursts of another person or situation. In other interpretations, it may be symbolic of a secret the dreamer is keeping concealed for their own protection or the protection of another - by sheltering an emotion or thought, the dreamer is maintaining control and preventing an explosive response or devastation being caused.

    A nuclear/atomic bomb is representative of a fear that everything will be wiped out and destroyed - the dreamer lacks any form of control and feels unprotected and vulnerable in a grave situation.
    ARROWS, SPEARS & DARTS
    • Arrows
    Dreaming of arrows is commonly associated with emotion. If an arrow is fired at the dreamer it may mean that they have significant emotional investment in a relationship. This relationship may be targeted for some kind of special attention; the dreamer may want to 'heal' a relationship in some way. Due to mythology (Cupid/Eros), arrows are often linked to love. Again, like blades, an arrow would be considered to be a masculine symbol because of it's elongated, pointed shape and its ability to penetrate. Think also about the symbol for masculinity/maleness - it is an arrow shooting off from a circle. Some interpretations suggest that an arrow represents a need for the dreamer to trust their own instinct in order to move forward successfully. 
    • Darts
    Darts appearing in a dream can mean that the dreamer wants more out of life. It is considered to be a symbol of strength, and this is even more so if the dart seen in the dream is red. It may indicate that the dreamer is aware that they will come out on top of a certain waking situation as long as they aim properly and take their time, rather than acting in haste. Consider how darts tend to be used in real-life; they are thrown towards a dartboard - in order to hit the right target (i.e. a bullseye or other number on the board), the thrower must make judgments as to the distance and trajectory the arrow needs to fly. This is the same approach the dreamer should take towards waking life events. 

    Some dream interpretations suggest that a game of darts is an indication that the dreamer is finding a waking situation difficult, especially in relation to expectations.
    • Spears
    Spears also have a very Freudian interpretation due to their elongated, pointed shape and their ability to penetrate flesh - they are associated with the masculine and the phallic. Dreaming of throwing a spear may be a sign that the dreamers needs to get straight to the point - and may indicate sharpness of intellect. The throwing of the spear may be perceived as the dreamer asserting their will and power and may represent honour, directness, commitment and strength. In some dream interpretations, the symbol of the spear is representative of a primitive and animalistic aggression and power. If you dream of having a spear thrown at you, it may be a sign that the dreamer feels that someone has them singled out for attack in their waking life - they are being targeted in some way. 
    OTHER OBJECTS/ITEMS AS WEAPONS
    • Hammer
    A hammer is both a positive sign of creativity and building; but when used as a weapon, may be a symbol of destructive force. A hammer may be representative that the dreamer is searching for the right tools to equip them in a waking life situation. If the dreamer dreams that he is beating someone with a hammer, like many weapon dreams, this is a straightforward sign of aggression. It may be that the dreamer has the 'right tools' to express his aggression in a productive way; but alternatively, the dreamer may have chosen the wrong outlet for their anger and must evaluate their waking situation. If the dreamer dreams that someone else is hitting them with a hammer, it may be a sign that the dreamer is feeling guilty about something (we associate hammers with the gavel of a judge). The dreamer may have been responsible for 'building' a negative situation which has backfired in some way.
    • Poison
    A dream about poison may be symbolic of negative influences. If the dreamer dreams of poisoning someone else, it may indicate that the dreamer is aware that they are the negative influence and are leading another person astray in their waking life: consider whether there is the possibility that you are toxic to a person or situation. The dreamer should try to think about whether they are spreading unpleasantness or corruption
    Being poisoned by another may be a sign that the dreamer is aware or suspicious - at least on a subconscious level - that someone in their waking life is a toxic influence on them. What does the poison taste like? Is it bitter? The poison may represent negative emotions such as bitterness, jealousy or rivalry.

    Additionally, there may be a positive connotation read into a poisoning dream - if the dreamer dreams that they are poisoning their enemies it might mean that they are overcoming or defeating a problem without needing to 'get their hands dirty'. The dreamer is successfully removing something negative or undesirable from their life. If the dreamer poisons themselves, it may be that the are causing themselves harm by engaging in dangerous behaviours - therefore feeding on something damaging and toxic, figuratively speaking. Perhaps the dreamer is in a relationship which is unhealthy, or indulging in a problematic habit. 
    • Nunchucks
    Nunchucks tend to be associated with the dreamer's defensive stance in relation to something in their waking lives.
    • Catapult/Slingshot
    Catapults/slingshots may reflect a recent or imminent drastic change in the dreamer's waking life environment. It may be a sign that the dreamer has control over a waking life situation, or their own emotions. Dreaming of being launched from a catapult is a sign that the dreamer feels they are - or will be - moving forward in life very quickly, or being propelled into a new direction, situation or experience - the dreamer is on a 'fast track' to success and is feeling like there are no limits to their current life plans. The catapult, when used as a weapon by the dreamer is largely seen as a positive dream symbol.
    • Hanged by a Rope or Noose
    To dream of being hanged by the neck with a rope or noose of some kind represents insecurity and fear of being seen as a failure. The dreamer is anxious they will be embarrassed in some aspect of their waking life and is worried that their weaknesses or failures will be publicly exposed to others. The dreamer may be feeling insignificant, humiliated or publicly shamed in some way. The dreamer may be feeling dependent on others (or something) and lacking support - they can't get their feet on the ground or feel they have a solid foundation beneath them. The dreamer may also feel they are repressing or limiting their self expression in some way. 

    To dream of hanging someone else may be a sign that the dreamer is intentionally exposing another person's weaknesses or failures and rejoicing or taking some pleasure in their downfall. It may be a warning that the dreamer is acting maliciously or negatively towards the person represented by the hanged dream character. The dreamer wants to draw attention to the hanged person's inferiority or negative traits and is trying to eliminate or overpower their influence - with the attention of others. The dreamer is trying to seek some kind of glory by killing off another. An alternative interpretation is that the dreamer is under pressure - something has put a noose around their neck and is holding them captive.
    • Guillotine
    To dream of a guillotine is a sign of severance. It may be a sign that the dreamer is severed from their spirituality or beliefs (since the head is being severed from the rest of the body). Additionally, it may be a sign that the dreamer is feeling disconnected from another aspect of themselves or their waking life. A guillotine may also represent a loss of emotional control or irrationality ('losing one's head'). The dreamer may also be in fear of punishment for something they feel guilty about in their waking life. 
    • Electrocution/Electric Shock
    To dream of being electrocuted or given an electric shock is a sign of a sudden and drastic change in the dreamer's waking life. Electricity represents a powerful force which has both creative and destructive power. On another level, it is associated with sexual energy ('sparks flying') and therefore may be read as a sexual dream symbol. Electricity can temporarily paralyse - if the dreamer dreams of being electrocuted, it may be representative of the fact something is stunting them in their waking life - physically, emotionally, intellectually or financially. 
    • Being Hit by a Car or Vehicle
    The dreamer should consider what kind of vehicle is being used as a weapon within the context of the dream and what this vehicle represents. Typically, being hit by a car in a dream is a sign that the dreamer's lifestyle. goals or beliefs are in conflict with another person's. It may also reflect a 'jolting' experience the dreamer has experienced, which may have dented their pride in some way. If the dreamer dreams of running down another person with a car or vehicle, it may reflect an awareness that the dreamer needs to hurt someone else in order to move ahead and achieve their own goals. 
    • Whips
    Dreaming of being whipped represents punishment (the dreamer may be feeling guilty about something), abuse or unhappiness. The dreamer may feel that they are someone's 'whipping boy' - the person who takes all the punishment for another, whether justified or not. If the dreamer whips someone else it may reflect that the dreamer perceives that they are using someone else as their 'whipping boy'. The whip is a weapon of torture and abuse - who is torturing or abusing who? It may be a symbol of emotional punishment. Alternatively, the dreamer may be whipping themselves in a form of self-flagellation - they are punishing themselves for something. The whip is also a symbol of control - is the dreamer controlling someone else (by 'whipping them into submission') or being controlled ('under the whip')? The dreamer should also consider whether there is anything in their waking life which is enslaving them.
    • Truncheon, Baton or Cosh
    A truncheon, baton or cosh is a sign of authority, dominance, order and control - as these 'weapons' are typically associated with law enforcement/policing. Being beaten by a truncheon is a sign that the dreamer may be misbehaving or acting inappropriately in their waking life, but allowing others to take the blame or responsibility for their actions. Beating another with a truncheon is a sign that the dreamer needs to be more dominant and forceful with others.
    • Ninja Stars
    Ninja stars represent newness and creativity. The dreamer needs to confront something and find a solution to a waking problem. The dreamer needs to take direct action to remove something negative from their waking life, and possess the power to do so effectively.
    • Being Attacked by Animals
    Being attacked by animals which have been set onto the dreamer as a weapon can reflect animalistic anger and uncontrolled aggression. The dreamer may have a built up on pent-up anger/aggression which is likely to be unleashed uncontrollably or ferociously. The dream is reflecting the dreamer's primal instincts. The animals which are attacking the dreamer should be interpreted within the context of what that animal represents or what associations it holds for the dreamer. The animal may reflect people or situations in the dreamer's waking life, or aspects of themselves with which they are in conflict. The way in which the animal attacks the dreamer may also be highly relevant to the meaning of the dream. An attack by an animal may also reflect an overpowering or threatening situation.
    • Burned by Fire
    To dream of being burned by fire is emblematic of a waking situation which the dreamer can no longer ignore, because it is a 'burning issue' or 'burning them up' in some way. Something is causing the dreamer to become heated - it may be a situation with either aggressive or sexual overtones. Being burned alive may also indicate that the dreamer is victim to their 'burning ambition' or feels like they are being 'burned' by a waking situation or person who wants to embarrass or humiliate them. The dreamer may have experiences the long-term consequences of an unpleasant social situation and is anxious to avoid this situation being repeated - therefore, the dream may be serving as a reminder that last time the dreamer 'had their fingers burnt'. The dreamer may be 'feeling the heat' of a waking life situation which is threatening them or putting them under pressure in some way.

    To see someone else burned in a dream may reflect feelings of fiery, burning passion which the dreamer feels towards them, or the notion that this person deserves to be 'burned' or 'roasted' (i.e. shamed or humiliated) in some way. The dreamer might be sacrificing another person for their own gain. It may also be a sign that the dreamer is harshly or ruthlessly removing this person from their lives and 'burning their bridges' with regard to this relationship. 
    • Drowning in Water
    Dreaming of being drowned in water is a symbol of waking life pressures which are overwhelming and overpowering the dreamer, who may feel they are struggling for their own survival. Will they stay afloat? Will they sink or swim? The dreamer may feel they are 'in over their head' or 'in too deep' with regard to the waking situation. The waking life problem may be an emotional one, as water often relates to emotional states in dreams. The dreamer needs to keep their 'head above the water' and take control of the situation, facing reality. The waking life situation may also relate to relationships, responsibilities, social obligations or finances - the dreamer should consider what aspects of their waking life is causing them concern or anxiety and what pressures they are under which may be getting on top of them. If someone is holding the dreamer underwater the dreamer should consider who this dream character represents (or what element/aspect of themselves is being projected in the dream) and how this person/aspect of self is overwhelming or threatening them.
    • Cannon
    To dream of a cannon is representative of a potentially explosive or devastating action - direct action is being taken or needs to be taken. The dreamer is trying to defend themselves against attack or criticism, real or perceived, in their waking life. A cannon is usually used to defend a homestead - what is attacking the dreamer's safety and security? The dreamer may not be acting rationally or in a controlled way (they may be acting like a 'loose cannon'). Being shot out of a cannon is often perceived as having a phallic or sexual meaning, as Freud believed that the cannon represented the penis.
    • Being Thrown off a Building/Pushed from a Height
    To dream of being thrown off a building or pushed from a height may represent that the dreamer is being pushed into the realm of their subconscious - is something in their waking life forcing them to confront repressed thoughts, feelings, wishes or desires? The dreamer may be in the process of learning about their inner self on a deeper level. Additionally, being thrown or pushed from an elevated height may mean the dreamer fears failure or not succeeding in a particular waking task which is causing them anxiety. The dream may also mean that the dreamer is worried about losing a position of power or superiority (falling off their pedestal) - they are being brought down to earth by something or someone. If the dreamer dreams of throwing/pushing someone else from a height it is likely that this reflects the dreamer bringing another person down - removing them from a position of power
    • Stoning
    Dreaming of being stoned to death is symbolic of moral judgement or guilt - the dreamer may be feeling guilty about something, or anticipating punishment. Stoning someone else is symbolic of the dreamer's tendency to throw insults and blame at another - the dreamer concentrates on the flaws and failings of others, without looking towards his own shortcomings
    • Buried Alive
    Dreaming of being buried alive is a sign that the dreamer needs to let go of things which are causing him anxiety or fear - something is getting on top of the dreamer and they are being submerged under the weight of a waking situation or concern which they feel is trapping them. The dreamer has allowed a situation to build up around them which is threatening to destroy what they have. It may be a sign that the dreamer is aware - or fears - they are making some form of mistake in their waking life. Dreaming that they are dug out or rescued from their grave is thought to be representative that something will save the dreamer from their waking struggle or that they are aware that they will eventually succeed in rising to the surface and triumphing over what threatens to bury them. 

    Additionally, the dream may reflect a fear of death or the end of a relationship - this may be especially so if the dreamer dreams of burying someone else alive
    • Being Gassed/Poisoned by Gas
    Being gassed in a dream is thought to refer to a loss of emotional control - the dreamer's emotions are threatening to leak out and escape. Alternatively, it may mean that someone or something in the dreamer's waking life is having a noxious effect on their wellbeing or trapping them in some way. Gas is usually invisible - it may be a sign that the dreamer is unaware of exactly what is having the toxic effect on them - they are able to perceive the threat, but cannot see what it is. The dreamer may be anxious that someone is deceiving them.
    • Beaten with a Stick/Caned
    To be beaten by a stick/being caned represents a failure to fulfil expectations or obligations/promises or perhaps that the dreamer is lying to someone or themselves about something.  
    • Cut by Broken Glass
    To dream of being cut by broken glass has many meanings. Broken glass in a dream reflects shattered hopes dreams, relationships or promises - are any of these things 'cutting' the dreamer in his waking life i.e. hurting them or having a detrimental effect? Something is fragmented and may be having a harmful effect on the dreamer's emotional state. 
    • Grenades
    To throw a grenade in a dream is a symbol for pent-up anger and aggression - the dreamer should consider who/what they are throwing a grenade towards (is there a target?) or whether they are just throwing the grenade recklessly into a crowd or environment. The dreamer is unable to continue to repress emotions which are threatening to explode at any moment (the moment of impact). To dream of a grenade being thrown at you represents the obstacles others are putting in their path.

    GENERAL FIGHTING (PERSONAL WEAPONS)
    • Punching/Using Fists
    Dreaming of punching or using your fists is a sign of aggression, which may be repressed - this is true whether the dreamer is the one punching or the one being punched - it may be that they are the source of anger and aggression or that these feelings are being directed at them from someone in their waking life. Being unable to throw a punch is a sign that the dreamer is feeling futile and powerless - they may be experiencing problems in defending or standing up for themselves in a waking-life fight of some sort. On a more positive note, the dreamer punching someone/something may be symbolic of the hidden power the dreamer possesses within themselves.
    • Kicking
    Dreaming of kicking may be symbolic of hasty actions - perhaps the dreamer is expressing anger or aggression in a hasty way without fully thinking through the potential consequences. It may be that a dream about kicking is a sign that the dreamer needs to slow down and reevaluate a waking situation before acting. 

    Again, like other dreams which involve the violent use of the body as a weapon, a kicking dream may refer to pent-up aggression which the dreamer feels unable to express in their waking life. 

    Alternatively, some interpretations suggest that a dream about kicking - particularly if it is the dreamer being kicked by another - is symbolic that the dreamer is fearful or anxious about strong competition they are faced with in their waking life. Being kicked may also refer to the fact the dreamer sees themselves as a victim and is feeling sorry for themselves. This would be especially true if the dreamer dreams of being kicked while on the ground.

    A kick may be a sign of motivation - something is kicking the dreamer into action. This would be a positive interpretation of a kicking dream, as would the notion of 'kicking someone into touch' or 'kicking a bad habit'. 
    • Biting
    Dreaming of biting someone else may be a sign that the dreamer is aware they are putting too much pressure on someone in their waking life. If the biting presents difficulty (i.e. the teeth are not sharp enough), perhaps the dreamer has bitten off more than they can chew with regard to a waking life situation. Consider who is being bitten and the waking life context in which they are involved. The dreamer who dreams of biting another may have repressed aggression which is childlike - or results from childhood sources - and requires attention.
    Dreaming of being bitten by another person reflects the dreamer's perceived vulnerability and also, unresolved emotions or insecurities
    • Wrestling or Boxing
    Wrestling or boxing in a dream is symbolic of a struggle in the dreamer's waking life. Typically, the person who wins at the wrestling/boxing will be the person the dreamer subconsciously perceives to have the stronger position in relation to the struggle - so if the dreamer loses at the wrestling or boxing, it may be a sign that they are likely to lose in the waking 'fight'. 

    In wrestling dreams, it may be that this is a symbol for the dreamer's wrestle with some aspect of their own identity or life - their opponent may reflect a projected fragment or part of themselves (with which they are wrestling or in conflict) and therefore special attention should be paid to the dream character or person with whom the dreamer finds themselves wrestling in the dream and what associations they make for this person. 

    In Freudian dream interpretation, wrestling is symbolic for the sexual act.  
    • Martial Arts/Kung Fu
    Martial arts or kung fu represents that the dreamer should re-direct their energies and focus them towards achieving their goals. It may be that there is an obstacle in the way of the dreamer succeeding at their long-term goals, and the dreamer must be prepared to dedicate themselves to overcome this. The dreamer needs to learn - or apply - discipline and control when dealing with a waking life challenge. Dreaming of using martial arts successfully against an enemy/opponent is a sign that the dreamer already possesses the required discipline and will power, while if the dreamer has martial arts used against them, it may indicate that they lack discipline and control and are not focused. Dreaming of martial arts may also be a sign that the dreamer has achieved balance in their waking life - or perhaps needs to work on achieving this balance, depending on the context of the dream and whether the dreamer is using martial arts/kung fu skills competently against another, or having martial arts/kung fu used against them by others. 
    STRANGULATION/SUFFOCATION/ASPHYXIATION
    • Experiencing Strangulation/Suffocation
    Dreaming of strangulation or suffocation (or being asphyxiated/smothered in some way) is actually quite a common dream theme. Dreaming of being suffocated may simply be a sign that the dreamer is under too much pressure in their waking life. Dreaming of being strangled may be symbol that something is preventing the dreamer from thriving and developing (perhaps creatively, intellectually or emotionally) - something is cutting off their oxygen and draining the life from them in some respect - the dreamer should consider if someone or something is having this effect on them in their waking life: what is stifling the dreamer? There may be something in the dreamer's waking life which is causing them to feel overwhelmed and powerless - consider who it is in the dream who is doing the strangling or suffocation. It may also be that a dreamer dreams of strangulation or suffocation because they suffer from actual breathing difficulties while asleep - often physical sensations which occur in a dream may have some real-life source. 

    Dreaming of strangling/suffocating another person may be a sign that you need to remove this person from your life, or at least address what behaviour/actions this person represents. The dreamer is 'killing off' something negative. Consider who the victim is and what associations you make with regard to them. The strangled/suffocated person may also represent an aspect or element of the dreamer themselves - one which is not being given an opportunity to breath and thrive. 



    Strangulation and suffocation is often linked to emotional restrictiveness: something is holding the dreamer back from expressing part of their identity. This aspect of self might be reflected in the dream character who the dreamer is strangling/suffocating. 

    Strangulation/suffocation dreams are also linked with the voice and speech - is the dreamer being prevented from speaking out about something, or voicing an opinion, thought, feeling/emotion, or desire? Is the dreamer afraid to speak out? Is someone trying to silence the dreamer, or alternatively, is the dreamer trying to silence someone else? 

    Have you had a violent dream about a weapon not featured in this article? Leave me a comment below and I will update the post to include any popular choices which I have failed to include in my original version.